I found this list really helpful in keeping me on track. You may have to tweak it a bit to fit your wedding, but it's pretty basic.
  • My Wedding To Do List 
    • Determine date and time. CHECK
    • Decide on the size, formality and setting of wedding. CHECK
    • Create a wedding and engagement budget. CHECK
    • Reserve the locations for wedding and reception. CHECK
    • Book officiant. CHECK
    • Choose your wedding party and confirm the participants. CHECK
    • Choose your wedding rings. CHECK
    • Draw up an initial guest list. CHECK
    • Order wedding dress. CHECK 
    • Wedding party attire- Flower girl and ring bearer. CHECK.
    • Book your photographer. CHECK
    • Reserve a caterer- food and alcohol. CHECK and CHECK
    • Decide on your menu. CHECK
    • Decide decor. CHECK
    • Reserve or buy linens. CHECK
    • Arrange rentals- tables and chairs. CHECK
    • Book DJ. CHECK
    • Florist. CHECK
    • Wedding cake. CHECK
    • Register for gifts. CHECK
    • Plan/book honeymoon. CHECK
    • Reserve car service. (Need ride from reception to hotel.) CHECK
    • Book hotel for wedding night. (Driskill Hotel) CHECK
    • Design/launch wedding website. CHECK
    • Book room block for out of town guests. CHECK  
    • Order candy for candy buffet. CHECK 
    • Find sparklers. CHECK
    • Choose outfits for mother of the bride and mother of the groom. CHECK
    • Check marriage licence requirement. CHECK
    • Find suit for Colby. CHECK
    • Figure out rehearsal dinner location.  CHECK
    • Make an appointment with hair and make-up artist for trial. CHECK
    • Meet with officiant to discuss ceremony. CHECK
    • DIY LIST (under DIY tab)

    FINAL DETAILS
    • Mail the invitations. CHECK! Mailed March 20. RSVP date of May 3.
    • Decide on wedding vows. CHECK!
    • Finalize the reception menus. CHECK
    • Finalize guest list. CHECK!
    • Finalize order with the florist. CHECK!
    • Confirm the wedding details with the DJ, including song lists and do not play list. 
    • Purchase gifts for parents and attendants. CHECK gifts for MOB and MOG. CHECK gifts for ring bearers and flower girls. 
    • Schedule final dress fitting. CHECK
    • Get marriage license. CHECK!
    • Give photographer final timeline. CHECK!
    • Confirm honeymoon reservations.
    • Confirm accommodation reservations.
    • Confirm the final numbers with the caterer. CHECK!
    • Confirm details with the car company.
    • Deliver marriage license to the officiant.
    • Choose someone to return any rented items after the wedding, and post-reception clean up.
    • Take care of any remaining payments required before the wedding day. 
    • Write any checks required for the wedding day, assign someone to ensure vendors get payments required on day of.
    • Pack for honeymoon.

    AFTER THE WEDDING